Life is not fair always
Life is what we make it!
Everybody wonders if it is true if it is really applicable in our life. if it is just a quote or a phrase to go through bad times.!
Life never gives you what you want and puts you in difficult situation to test your character, dedication and passion for what you are doing. It will never be easy to achieve your dreams, It will never be easy to have a perfect life that you have imagined ,it will never be easy to cope up with the situations around you when you feel like everything is falling apart. And that is what LIFE is all about ,when you have 99.9 percent of feeling to give up on something and still there is 0.01 % feeling that “yes i can do it “ that is what encourages you, that is what does not let you give up .
If you’re not stubborn, you’ll give up on experiments too soon. And if you’re not flexible, you’ll pound your head against the wall and you won’t see a different solution to a problem you’re trying to solve.” — Jeff Bezos..
Knowing the bad situation and instead of the disgust feeling you have inside you , we have to get our heads up and accept what is happening is happening for good ,even if we can’t do anything about it ,when you try to face it you face your inner self and get to know a new side of you. Dealing with your sadness ,anger, frustration is a really tough business because in a way you are dealing with yourself the more you became stubborn letting go off your feelings the other you will be more stubborn to get you out of those . its like standing in front of a mirror and fighting with yourself. Learning about us promotes growth. Growth is the best part about being human, because we develop into a new and different person.
“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”
It is not always easy to do. Or even to know what the right thing is. But keeping a focus on it and doing it as best you can makes big difference both in the results you get and for how you think about yourself. Loneliness that we feel is the worst situation we are always in a need of someone who can understand us someone who will fill that space And in the real world that is a big lie, if you can understand yourself you can be happy and make others happy and if you expect someone to understand you will always be disappointed. Know what is you want not the cattle in your way. If your life is boring and you think you are not doing the right thing don’t blame the situation or the people around you it’s you who can change it it’s you who can make something great in your life. It’s you who can make it right if you have done any mistakes.
“Identity is a prison you can never escape, but the way to redeem your past is not to run from it, but to try to understand it, and use it as a foundation to grow.” — Jay-Z
Usually something good can come out of even the worst situations. Focus on what you might gain for having survived a tough situation. Perhaps, you’ll come out of it a stronger person or maybe you’ll have learned a valuable life lesson whatever it is, try to view the situation as a learning experience that will help you in some way later in life. Just because you acknowledge a situation is unfair, doesn’t mean it won’t hurt. But you have to have guts to handle it and have to have a clear mind to go through it. When your previous plan shattered in to pieces make a new one and live up to it. No one said life would be fair .in fact life is unfair often. What matters is Your ability to accept that life and how many ways you can find to go through that situation .Whenever a difficult situation arrives give it a big smile and take it as a challenge to find 100 number of ways to overcome it.